Why do people have to ruin it??

July 31, 2007

Why do people have to ruin the excitement of something that is so important to them?  I just don’t understand.  A sweet friend of mine has been testing the waters to find the perfect digital camera for them.  When she finally found the one she wanted and was so excited for the deal she got and a year no interest or payments so she has plenty time to pay it, someone or a few had to ruin it for her.  This upsets me highly.  I am excited for her, we talked on the phone and she caught me while I was looking for a very important document I needed to find to supply information by a certain time frame and didn’t get to ask a whole lot about it.  I think she did a great thing and did a good thing because it was something she wanted for such a long time and seemed to work out.  She comes home and tries to tell her so called friends online and they ended up making her feel guilty and should take it back.  What was up with that? 

She is someone who is always there for her friends, no matter what, they hurt her feelings from time to time and yet she is still there.  She doesn’t do that to them and she doesn’t rain on your parade’s.  So to who ever did that, if you happen to visit my scrap blog, then I have three words for you… SHAME ON YOU!

I, like my friend, have been hurt online, way too many times and sometimes we ask ourselves why do we do this to ourselves?  But its our only connection to the outside world most days.  But I have to say at least we are able to find each other and know that its not a total loss or waste to be on the Internet.  So to my sweet friend who has a new dream digital camera.  YOU GO GIRL!!   Someday maybe that will be me too!

Just recently I had my feelings really hurt and decided I need to pull away from the source.  I am not going to make a production out of it but it really feels degrading when your only wanted for your dollars you spend!  That’s how I feel!  I won’t be spending those dollars there anymore.