Working on a new scrap layout

I am working on a new scrap layout, of course with Trace, still need to finish up my concert photos.  Seems when ever I get the chance to sit down and scrap, something new and eventful with dad comes up.  He has been having a new issue with all his health issues he already has and is avoiding the topic of discussion.  He has avoided the colonoscopy test for years, even refuses to see a few doctors who wanted him to have one because he thinks its just about the money.  He needs this screening done and more so then ever with him having new issues with not being able to go to the bathroom.  We keeping going around and around about it, he rather just depend on laxatives and he can’t do that either.  Some are unsafe for him to use.  He wants to try one of those colon cleanse products.  Hey I am for natural cleansing, but it can’t keep avoiding having that test done.  I think its a sign of something could be wrong because of other complaints he has.  The hardest part of being a caregiver for me, at this moment is him being so darn stubborn and refusing to have certain tests done.  I sit and think what could be wrong, especially with the pain he is describing and it breaks my heart.  I can’t force him and neither can the doctors.  Sometimes I wonder if I will never get caught up with my scrapping!!